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How
often are we introduced to someone only to forget his
or her name moments later? In fact, many times we never
knew the name. Today introductions are made in an unclear
manner so that it is very it is very hard to remember
others' names. Forgetting people's names often means
we do mot really cars about them. When we know their
names, we are saying. "You are important. I remember
you "(A clear introduction should be made. therefore,
if you want to build good social relationships with
others.
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Suppose
two friends of mine are sitting in my room. One is 165cm
tall and the other is 175cm tall. Which do you think
is a man and which is a woman? In the absence of other
information, you probably conclude that the shorter
one is a woman while the taller one is a man. Where
does this conclusion come from? your experience tells
you that men tend to be taller than women. So, from
the particular men and women you have known, you draw
a conclusion about men and women as a whole. In this
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It
is so easy to be reactive! You get caught up in the
moment. You say things you don't mean. You do things
you later regret. And you think, "Oh, if only I
had stopped to think about it, I would never have reacted
that way!" Clearly, our lives would be better if
we acted based on our deepest values instead of reacting
to the feelings of the moment. What we all need is a
'pause button' - something that enables us to stop between
what happens to us and our response to it.
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